"We went online to surrogacy agencies. We interviewed lots of people - and I have to say, with all due respect, some of them were freaks. I was very leery of the process the whole way through"
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Celebrity candor rarely lands this bluntly: “with all due respect, some of them were freaks” is a gut-level reaction dressed up as politeness, then immediately undressed by the slur itself. Meloni’s phrasing captures a particular early-internet anxiety about intimacy mediated by screens. Surrogacy isn’t just a medical or legal process here; it’s a marketplace of strangers, and he’s narrating the shock of shopping for something as private as parenthood.
The line works because it reveals the collision between privilege and vulnerability. As an actor, Meloni lives in a world where access is curated and boundaries are managed by reps, gates, and sets. Online surrogacy flips that: you meet people directly, sift through bios, and make life-altering decisions in a digital environment that can feel like Craigslist with higher stakes. Calling some candidates “freaks” isn’t just rudeness; it’s a defensive move, a way to restore control by turning discomfort into a judgment about other people’s normalcy.
“I was very leery” is the tell. The subtext is fear of being fooled, exploited, or morally compromised, plus the creeping realization that wanting a child can push you into negotiations you never imagined. Culturally, it also reflects how surrogacy has been framed in tabloid and talk-show terms: a legitimate route to family, but still shadowed by stigma, class imbalance, and the suspicion that money is buying bodies. Meloni’s honesty is compelling, but it’s also revealing: the “freaks” label exposes how quickly even sympathetic narratives about fertility can slide into othering the very people who make the outcome possible.
The line works because it reveals the collision between privilege and vulnerability. As an actor, Meloni lives in a world where access is curated and boundaries are managed by reps, gates, and sets. Online surrogacy flips that: you meet people directly, sift through bios, and make life-altering decisions in a digital environment that can feel like Craigslist with higher stakes. Calling some candidates “freaks” isn’t just rudeness; it’s a defensive move, a way to restore control by turning discomfort into a judgment about other people’s normalcy.
“I was very leery” is the tell. The subtext is fear of being fooled, exploited, or morally compromised, plus the creeping realization that wanting a child can push you into negotiations you never imagined. Culturally, it also reflects how surrogacy has been framed in tabloid and talk-show terms: a legitimate route to family, but still shadowed by stigma, class imbalance, and the suspicion that money is buying bodies. Meloni’s honesty is compelling, but it’s also revealing: the “freaks” label exposes how quickly even sympathetic narratives about fertility can slide into othering the very people who make the outcome possible.
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