"We went to Big Sur about three years ago and hung out at the Esalen Institute"
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The context matters. Ament comes from a scene that’s always been suspicious of grand statements, especially the Seattle ecosystem where sincerity is currency but earnestness can get you laughed out of the room. So the quote balances two impulses at once: the desire to touch something expansive (Big Sur, Esalen, the promise of transformation) and the need to keep it socially safe. You can almost hear the shrug. The line protects the speaker from the cliché of the rock star chasing enlightenment, even as it quietly admits the curiosity.
There’s also a subtle class and cultural tell. Esalen is “counterculture” that survived by becoming a destination - a place you can book, attend, and leave with a story. Saying you “hung out” there frames the Institute less as a guru factory and more as a backdrop, like a studio or a tour stop. It’s spiritual tourism reframed as downtime, which is exactly how a working musician might metabolize big ideas: not as doctrine, but as atmosphere.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ament, Jeff. (2026, January 16). We went to Big Sur about three years ago and hung out at the Esalen Institute. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-went-to-big-sur-about-three-years-ago-and-hung-113239/
Chicago Style
Ament, Jeff. "We went to Big Sur about three years ago and hung out at the Esalen Institute." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-went-to-big-sur-about-three-years-ago-and-hung-113239/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We went to Big Sur about three years ago and hung out at the Esalen Institute." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-went-to-big-sur-about-three-years-ago-and-hung-113239/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.





