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Love Quote by Zsa Zsa Gabor

"We were both in love with him. I fell out of love with him, but he didn't"

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It lands like a champagne toast that turns, mid-sip, into a knife twist: romantic comedy timing with a bruised aftertaste. Zsa Zsa Gabor frames a triangle with the breezy elegance of someone who’s seen enough of love to treat it as a social sport, then quietly reveals the asymmetry that actually does the damage. The line’s genius is its grammatical pivot. “We were both in love with him” reads like a glamorous confession, a naughty anecdote you’d expect from a woman whose public persona made scandal sound like etiquette. Then she shifts the camera: “I fell out of love with him, but he didn’t.” The punch isn’t the rivalry; it’s the mismatch in exit rights.

The subtext is control. Gabor claims the one power romance reliably offers: the power to stop feeling. Falling out of love is presented as casual, almost aesthetic, as if affection were a hat you wear until it no longer suits you. But the final clause refuses that fantasy. His continued love is a kind of haunting, suggesting possessiveness, entitlement, or simply the stubborn inertia of desire. Either way, she’s pointing to an uneven economy: one person gets to move on; the other is stuck paying emotional rent.

Context matters because Gabor’s celebrity was built on turning private life into public performance. Multiple marriages, tabloid narratives, and an era that treated actresses as spectacle sharpen the line into cultural commentary: when a woman narrates romance as comedy, it’s often because tragedy has been priced in already.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Gabor, Zsa Zsa. (2026, January 18). We were both in love with him. I fell out of love with him, but he didn't. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-were-both-in-love-with-him-i-fell-out-of-love-15078/

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Gabor, Zsa Zsa. "We were both in love with him. I fell out of love with him, but he didn't." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-were-both-in-love-with-him-i-fell-out-of-love-15078/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We were both in love with him. I fell out of love with him, but he didn't." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-were-both-in-love-with-him-i-fell-out-of-love-15078/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.

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Zsa Zsa Gabor (February 6, 1917 - December 18, 2016) was a Actress from Hungary.

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