"We were both in love with him. I fell out of love with him, but he didn't"
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The subtext is control. Gabor claims the one power romance reliably offers: the power to stop feeling. Falling out of love is presented as casual, almost aesthetic, as if affection were a hat you wear until it no longer suits you. But the final clause refuses that fantasy. His continued love is a kind of haunting, suggesting possessiveness, entitlement, or simply the stubborn inertia of desire. Either way, she’s pointing to an uneven economy: one person gets to move on; the other is stuck paying emotional rent.
Context matters because Gabor’s celebrity was built on turning private life into public performance. Multiple marriages, tabloid narratives, and an era that treated actresses as spectacle sharpen the line into cultural commentary: when a woman narrates romance as comedy, it’s often because tragedy has been priced in already.
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| Topic | Heartbreak |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Gabor, Zsa Zsa. (2026, January 18). We were both in love with him. I fell out of love with him, but he didn't. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-were-both-in-love-with-him-i-fell-out-of-love-15078/
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Gabor, Zsa Zsa. "We were both in love with him. I fell out of love with him, but he didn't." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-were-both-in-love-with-him-i-fell-out-of-love-15078/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We were both in love with him. I fell out of love with him, but he didn't." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-were-both-in-love-with-him-i-fell-out-of-love-15078/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.






