"We were in a great, seething moment in the 1970s. There was a new Labour government and everything seemed full of hope... But, as we got older and we saw how much women's behaviour contributed to what was wrong, we stopped being able to see ourselves purely as"
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Then comes the turn: age, observation, disappointment. The phrase "how much women's behaviour contributed to what was wrong" is the charged pivot, not because it’s a simple betrayal of feminism but because it signals Garner’s signature refusal to keep moral categories tidy. Subtext: liberation movements can harden into comforting scripts, and those scripts can fail to describe what actually happens in rooms, relationships, and choices. She’s interested in complicity, mess, and the uncomfortable fact that agency doesn’t always look like empowerment.
Context matters. Garner emerged as a major Australian voice in the wake of second-wave feminism and later became a lightning rod for writing that refused the movement’s expected solidarity, especially around sex, violence, and personal responsibility. This sentence contains that lifelong argument in miniature: political hope colliding with intimate evidence, the social project complicated by the stubbornness of human behavior.
The trailing "we stopped being able to see ourselves purely as" is a rhetorical cliffhanger that hints at the lost word: victims. Garner’s intent is to puncture the comfort of purity and replace it with something harder to market but closer to lived experience: accountability without cynicism, feminism without self-flattery.
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Garner, Helen. (2026, January 17). We were in a great, seething moment in the 1970s. There was a new Labour government and everything seemed full of hope... But, as we got older and we saw how much women's behaviour contributed to what was wrong, we stopped being able to see ourselves purely as. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-were-in-a-great-seething-moment-in-the-1970s-53149/
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Garner, Helen. "We were in a great, seething moment in the 1970s. There was a new Labour government and everything seemed full of hope... But, as we got older and we saw how much women's behaviour contributed to what was wrong, we stopped being able to see ourselves purely as." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-were-in-a-great-seething-moment-in-the-1970s-53149/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We were in a great, seething moment in the 1970s. There was a new Labour government and everything seemed full of hope... But, as we got older and we saw how much women's behaviour contributed to what was wrong, we stopped being able to see ourselves purely as." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-were-in-a-great-seething-moment-in-the-1970s-53149/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



