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Daily Inspiration Quote by Black Kettle

"We were once friends with the whites but you nudged us out of the way by your intrigues, and now when we are in council you keep nudging each other"

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There’s a cold, surgical precision in Black Kettle’s “nudged”: not conquered, not defeated, not even openly betrayed, but steadily pushed aside by a political shoulder. The word exposes how dispossession often operates in practice - less as a single dramatic rupture than as a series of calculated, deniable pressures. “Intrigues” sharpens the accusation. He’s not describing honest conflict between nations; he’s naming manipulation: backroom promises, shifting alliances, bureaucratic traps, the kind of paper-and-procedure warfare that lets the powerful keep a clean conscience.

The line pivots on a brutal irony. Once, the Cheyenne could imagine a workable relationship “with the whites,” a phrase that carries the weight of diplomacy and restraint: friendship as a strategic hope, not naive sentiment. Then the “you” fractures into two audiences at once - representatives of the U.S. on paper, and the competing white factions in practice. “Now when we are in council you keep nudging each other” is a devastating portrait of colonial governance: Indigenous leaders are told to negotiate as if the state is coherent, while white officials, settlers, soldiers, and politicians jockey for advantage inside the room, using Native presence as a prop.

Historically, Black Kettle is speaking from a life spent pursuing peace even as treaties were routinely violated and violence escalated toward catastrophe - including the Sand Creek Massacre, where his own people were killed under a U.S. flag meant to signal safety. The quote’s intent isn’t merely grievance; it’s an indictment of a system that treats “council” as theater and calls it order.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kettle, Black. (2026, January 17). We were once friends with the whites but you nudged us out of the way by your intrigues, and now when we are in council you keep nudging each other. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-were-once-friends-with-the-whites-but-you-26693/

Chicago Style
Kettle, Black. "We were once friends with the whites but you nudged us out of the way by your intrigues, and now when we are in council you keep nudging each other." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-were-once-friends-with-the-whites-but-you-26693/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We were once friends with the whites but you nudged us out of the way by your intrigues, and now when we are in council you keep nudging each other." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-were-once-friends-with-the-whites-but-you-26693/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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Black Kettle (1803 - November 27, 1868) was a Leader from USA.

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