"We were sweet, lovely people who wanted to throw out all the staid institutions who placed money and wars above all else. When you're young you think that's how life works"
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Then she sharpens the target: institutions that “placed money and wars above all else.” That pairing isn’t accidental. It’s a shorthand for how power reproduces itself - capital and conflict as mutually reinforcing engines. Kidder doesn’t romanticize rebellion so much as locate its original clarity: young people often see the system’s incentives with brutal accuracy, even if their strategy is pure wish.
The final turn, “When you’re young you think that’s how life works,” reads like an ache disguised as wisdom. It’s not just nostalgia; it’s the recognition that the world trains you to negotiate with what you once wanted to abolish. Coming from an actress - someone who moved through Hollywood’s own machinery of money, image, and hierarchy - the subtext is personal. She’s admitting the seduction of radical simplicity, and the slow, compromising education of adulthood, without mocking the impulse that started it.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kidder, Margot. (2026, January 16). We were sweet, lovely people who wanted to throw out all the staid institutions who placed money and wars above all else. When you're young you think that's how life works. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-were-sweet-lovely-people-who-wanted-to-throw-89212/
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Kidder, Margot. "We were sweet, lovely people who wanted to throw out all the staid institutions who placed money and wars above all else. When you're young you think that's how life works." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-were-sweet-lovely-people-who-wanted-to-throw-89212/.
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"We were sweet, lovely people who wanted to throw out all the staid institutions who placed money and wars above all else. When you're young you think that's how life works." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-were-sweet-lovely-people-who-wanted-to-throw-89212/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








