"Wearing the correct dress for any occasion is a matter of good manners"
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The intent is prescriptive, but the subtext is defensive. Calling it “good manners” shifts the burden away from class, gender, and power, and onto individual virtue. If you’re excluded, the logic goes, it’s not prejudice or gatekeeping; you simply failed a civility test. That’s why the line works: it disguises social control as consideration. It invites agreement because most people like the idea of respect, even when “respect” quietly means compliance.
Context matters here. Mid-century American celebrity culture sold glamour as aspiration and discipline as decency, especially for women. Young’s statement echoes an era that rewarded women for being legible: tasteful, appropriate, never too loud. Read today, it’s a clean distillation of an old bargain: you can enter the room, but only if you dress like you already belong.
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| Topic | Respect |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Young, Loretta. (2026, January 16). Wearing the correct dress for any occasion is a matter of good manners. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/wearing-the-correct-dress-for-any-occasion-is-a-95139/
Chicago Style
Young, Loretta. "Wearing the correct dress for any occasion is a matter of good manners." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/wearing-the-correct-dress-for-any-occasion-is-a-95139/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Wearing the correct dress for any occasion is a matter of good manners." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/wearing-the-correct-dress-for-any-occasion-is-a-95139/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.








