"Well, for us, it's always better not to have too many expectations and to just go with the flow because then it's always a big plus no matter what happens"
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What makes the line work is its casual, almost shrugging rhythm. The repetition of "always" is doing heavy lifting, trying to turn a personal coping strategy into a reliable law of nature. "Go with the flow" is familiar enough to feel harmless, yet paired with "big plus" it reveals the real agenda: keep the emotional stakes low so you can claim victory regardless of the result. That isnt cynicism so much as self-preservation in an industry that demands constant reinvention while punishing visible neediness.
In the context of a musician like Valo - long associated with romantic maximalism in HIM's lyrics and image - the quote reads as a quiet pivot. The persona traffics in grand feeling; the person is talking like someone who has learned that grand feeling comes with a hangover. Its a backstage philosophy: keep the art intense, keep your personal expectations lightweight. The charm is that it frames retreat as optimism. If you cant control what happens, control what you ask from it.
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| Topic | Live in the Moment |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Valo, Ville. (2026, January 16). Well, for us, it's always better not to have too many expectations and to just go with the flow because then it's always a big plus no matter what happens. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-for-us-its-always-better-not-to-have-too-134866/
Chicago Style
Valo, Ville. "Well, for us, it's always better not to have too many expectations and to just go with the flow because then it's always a big plus no matter what happens." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-for-us-its-always-better-not-to-have-too-134866/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Well, for us, it's always better not to have too many expectations and to just go with the flow because then it's always a big plus no matter what happens." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-for-us-its-always-better-not-to-have-too-134866/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.









