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Parenting & Family Quote by L. Ron Hubbard

"Well I don't know that I'm okay any more than anyone else is okay, I lead a happy life and a very full one - I have a happy marriage and my kids are all cheerful, and no one is finding fault with me, personally"

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Normalcy becomes a performance here, not a condition. Hubbard isn’t declaring himself “okay” so much as carefully dodging the very premise that anyone can be. The opening hedge - “I don't know that I'm okay any more than anyone else is okay” - sounds humble, even democratic, but it quietly lowers the bar: if nobody is fully okay, then the demand for proof becomes unreasonable. That’s a useful move for a public figure who sold certainties while courting controversy. The sentence preemptively blurs the difference between private stability and public accountability.

Then comes the inventory of satisfactions: “happy life,” “very full,” “happy marriage,” “kids… cheerful.” It’s domesticity as credential, a culturally legible checklist of success meant to short-circuit deeper questions. The repetition of “happy” works like insistence; the more it’s said, the more you sense the anxiety underneath it. “Full” does extra work too: not necessarily peaceful or ethical, just busy and validated.

The sharpest tell is the closing clause: “no one is finding fault with me, personally.” That “personally” is a trapdoor. It concedes that fault-finding exists, maybe even deservedly, but tries to relocate it into the realm of impersonal misunderstanding, institutional politics, or malicious outsiders. Hubbard frames criticism as social noise rather than substantive critique, and positions himself as a basically decent family man unfairly targeted. The intent isn’t confession; it’s insulation - a rhetorical shield built from relatability, vagueness, and the idea that a cheerful household should outrank any public ledger.

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Hubbard, L. Ron. (2026, January 17). Well I don't know that I'm okay any more than anyone else is okay, I lead a happy life and a very full one - I have a happy marriage and my kids are all cheerful, and no one is finding fault with me, personally. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-i-dont-know-that-im-okay-any-more-than-55713/

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Hubbard, L. Ron. "Well I don't know that I'm okay any more than anyone else is okay, I lead a happy life and a very full one - I have a happy marriage and my kids are all cheerful, and no one is finding fault with me, personally." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-i-dont-know-that-im-okay-any-more-than-55713/.

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"Well I don't know that I'm okay any more than anyone else is okay, I lead a happy life and a very full one - I have a happy marriage and my kids are all cheerful, and no one is finding fault with me, personally." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-i-dont-know-that-im-okay-any-more-than-55713/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.

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L. Ron Hubbard (March 13, 1911 - January 24, 1986) was a Author from USA.

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