"Well, I'm not a violent person. You have to back off. People sometimes will try you and try you until you try not to, but you have to react. Normally, I just walk away"
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The real engine of the quote is the repeated "try" and the pivot to "you have to react". That phrasing quietly relocates agency. He’s not choosing violence; it’s being summoned by other people’s provocation. It’s the moral math of masculinity under pressure: patience is virtuous, but there’s an unspoken point at which restraint turns into weakness. "Back off" functions like a warning label, both protective (leave me alone) and performative (I can handle myself). The subtext is about respect, not rage.
"Normally, I just walk away" is doing a lot of reputational work. It paints self-control as the default setting while leaving room for an exception that still feels honorable. That’s the cultural context, too: athletes are often expected to be intimidating on the field and exemplary off it, a contradiction that invites constant scrutiny. Smith’s quote reads as a negotiation between those worlds, trying to keep dignity intact while admitting that dignity sometimes comes with consequences.
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| Topic | Self-Discipline |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Smith, Bubba. (n.d.). Well, I'm not a violent person. You have to back off. People sometimes will try you and try you until you try not to, but you have to react. Normally, I just walk away. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-im-not-a-violent-person-you-have-to-back-off-170640/
Chicago Style
Smith, Bubba. "Well, I'm not a violent person. You have to back off. People sometimes will try you and try you until you try not to, but you have to react. Normally, I just walk away." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-im-not-a-violent-person-you-have-to-back-off-170640/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Well, I'm not a violent person. You have to back off. People sometimes will try you and try you until you try not to, but you have to react. Normally, I just walk away." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-im-not-a-violent-person-you-have-to-back-off-170640/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.






