"Well, I've had to deal with everything in my life... leavin' the family, learnin' what not and what to do"
About this Quote
Then he drops the detail that makes the sentence sting: "leavin' the family". In blues language, leaving is never clean. It carries guilt, hunger, ambition, and the practical reality of a musician's life: touring, chasing gigs, chasing a sound, sometimes chasing sobriety or simply distance. Allison doesn't sentimentalize it. He pairs it with "learnin' what not and what to do", a phrase that flips the moral script. Growth isn't presented as wisdom handed down; it's trial-and-error, the curriculum of mistakes. The informal diction - "leavin'", "learnin'", "what not" - keeps it close to speech and closer to confession.
Culturally, it fits a tradition where autobiography becomes authority. Blues credibility isn't about polish; it's about receipts. Allison signals that the music isn't an act he's putting on. It's a ledger of consequences, with family as the line item that never stops accruing interest.
Quote Details
| Topic | Family |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Allison, Luther. (2026, January 15). Well, I've had to deal with everything in my life... leavin' the family, learnin' what not and what to do. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-ive-had-to-deal-with-everything-in-my-life-148961/
Chicago Style
Allison, Luther. "Well, I've had to deal with everything in my life... leavin' the family, learnin' what not and what to do." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-ive-had-to-deal-with-everything-in-my-life-148961/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Well, I've had to deal with everything in my life... leavin' the family, learnin' what not and what to do." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-ive-had-to-deal-with-everything-in-my-life-148961/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.





