"Well, my relationship to America at the time I left was very limited"
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That coolness fits Mathews's larger sensibility: a writer shaped by Oulipo constraint and by a taste for sidestepping confession. The subtext is that attachment is not inevitable; it is constructed, maintained, or neglected. "At the time I left" matters because it refuses the audience's desire for a permanent stance. He's not issuing an anti-American manifesto. He's describing a historical moment in a life, the way you might describe a job you once had and outgrew. The effect is almost deadpan, but the deadpan carries its own critique: if a person can leave a country with only a "limited" relationship, what does that say about the country's ability to claim him?
It also gestures toward the mid-century American artist's dilemma: a nation loud with identity claims, and a cosmopolitan literary world increasingly centered elsewhere. Mathews makes the exit sound mundane, which is precisely the provocation. The shock isn't that he left. It's how little leaving had to mean.
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