"Well, sometimes when you say you want to be like everybody else, you're really saying that you're not"
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The intent feels less philosophical than practical, actor-to-audience: a note about what people really mean when they perform normalcy. Atkins is pointing to the moment you hear someone insist on sameness and you can almost see the flinch underneath. It’s a statement about self-awareness that arrives through denial. Wanting to be "everybody else" becomes an indirect admission that you’re tracking the distance between you and the group, measuring yourself against a standard you suspect you’re failing.
The subtext also reads as a comment on identity under pressure - adolescence, fame, sexuality, class, disability, any category that can make "ordinary" feel like a club with bouncers. There’s no villain in the sentence, but there is a social system: the crowd gets treated as the default setting, and the speaker’s longing becomes evidence that default was never theirs.
As an actor’s observation, it’s especially sharp: it recognizes that most declarations of belonging are, at heart, auditions.
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"Well, sometimes when you say you want to be like everybody else, you're really saying that you're not." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-sometimes-when-you-say-you-want-to-be-like-42509/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






