"Well the themes for me were and remain sex and love and grief and death - the things that make us and undo us, create and destroy, how we breed and disappear and the emotional context that surrounds these events"
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The intent is a kind of moral re-centering. Politics loves the fiction of control - policy as mastery, progress as a staircase. Lynch punctures that by insisting the real “themes” are biological and emotional. “Make us and undo us” collapses creation and destruction into a single mechanism: what builds a life also guarantees its ending. That’s not nihilism; it’s an argument about humility. Any rhetoric that promises permanence is, at best, denial management.
The subtext is that culture’s big fights are proxy wars for these four facts. Sex and love are where we seek meaning and continuity; grief and death are where meaning gets audited. The phrase “how we breed and disappear” is deliberately unsentimental - reproduction without romance, mortality without heroics - but he immediately restores the human cost with “the emotional context.” That last clause is the tell: the point isn’t that we die; it’s that we have to live with knowing we will, and we build institutions, laws, and stories to soften (or weaponize) that knowledge.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lynch, Thomas. (2026, January 16). Well the themes for me were and remain sex and love and grief and death - the things that make us and undo us, create and destroy, how we breed and disappear and the emotional context that surrounds these events. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-the-themes-for-me-were-and-remain-sex-and-94007/
Chicago Style
Lynch, Thomas. "Well the themes for me were and remain sex and love and grief and death - the things that make us and undo us, create and destroy, how we breed and disappear and the emotional context that surrounds these events." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-the-themes-for-me-were-and-remain-sex-and-94007/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Well the themes for me were and remain sex and love and grief and death - the things that make us and undo us, create and destroy, how we breed and disappear and the emotional context that surrounds these events." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-the-themes-for-me-were-and-remain-sex-and-94007/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





