"Well there are those who think you can only succeed at someone else's expense"
About this Quote
The intent is double-edged. On one level, it’s a quiet defense of ambition that doesn’t require collateral damage. On another, it’s a critique of the scarcity mentality that shaped pop stardom in the ’80s: charts as combat, image as property, authenticity policed like a border. For a figure like Boy George - who built success through flamboyance, softness, and deliberate refusal to fit “serious masculinity” - the quote also reads as a rebuke to cultural accounting. His visibility was treated by some as an intrusion, as if his presence stole oxygen from “real” artists or “normal” people.
Subtext: the belief that success demands extraction is itself a kind of prison. It makes collaboration look naive, kindness look fake, and anyone thriving look suspect. Boy George frames that paranoia as optional - a worldview you can choose not to live in, even if it’s the one the industry keeps trying to sell.
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| Topic | Ethics & Morality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
George, Boy. (2026, January 17). Well there are those who think you can only succeed at someone else's expense. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-there-are-those-who-think-you-can-only-44424/
Chicago Style
George, Boy. "Well there are those who think you can only succeed at someone else's expense." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-there-are-those-who-think-you-can-only-44424/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Well there are those who think you can only succeed at someone else's expense." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-there-are-those-who-think-you-can-only-44424/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.










