"Well there are two things: Number one is, make sure you always enjoy yourself, because when you enjoy yourself, you'll learn, you'll want more information, you'll push yourself"
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Chastain’s advice sounds almost suspiciously gentle for someone whose career was built in the furnace of elite competition. That’s the point. By putting “enjoy yourself” at number one, she flips the usual sports-industrial script that treats joy as a reward you earn after suffering. In her framing, enjoyment is the engine. It’s not self-care as a spa day; it’s a performance strategy.
The sentence is wired like a chain reaction: enjoy yourself -> you’ll learn -> you’ll want more -> you’ll push yourself. She’s describing intrinsic motivation as a force multiplier. When the work feels meaningful, curiosity turns practice into play, and play turns repetition into mastery. The subtext is that discipline is easier to sustain when it’s chosen, not imposed. You don’t have to be dragged toward improvement if you’re already running toward something that feels alive.
Context matters: Chastain is a defining figure of U.S. women’s soccer, a sport that had to build legitimacy while performing under a microscope. For women athletes especially, “push yourself” often arrives packaged with narratives of toughness and sacrifice, sometimes bordering on self-erasure. Her line quietly resists that: ambition without joy is brittle, and brittle things break.
It’s also an implicit coaching philosophy. If you want an athlete to keep showing up, you don’t just train their body; you protect the part of them that still wants to be there. Enjoyment isn’t a detour from excellence. It’s how you keep excellence from turning into burnout.
The sentence is wired like a chain reaction: enjoy yourself -> you’ll learn -> you’ll want more -> you’ll push yourself. She’s describing intrinsic motivation as a force multiplier. When the work feels meaningful, curiosity turns practice into play, and play turns repetition into mastery. The subtext is that discipline is easier to sustain when it’s chosen, not imposed. You don’t have to be dragged toward improvement if you’re already running toward something that feels alive.
Context matters: Chastain is a defining figure of U.S. women’s soccer, a sport that had to build legitimacy while performing under a microscope. For women athletes especially, “push yourself” often arrives packaged with narratives of toughness and sacrifice, sometimes bordering on self-erasure. Her line quietly resists that: ambition without joy is brittle, and brittle things break.
It’s also an implicit coaching philosophy. If you want an athlete to keep showing up, you don’t just train their body; you protect the part of them that still wants to be there. Enjoyment isn’t a detour from excellence. It’s how you keep excellence from turning into burnout.
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