"Well, they're Southern people, and if they know you are working at home they think nothing of walking right in for coffee. But they wouldn't dream of interrupting you at golf"
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Then comes the twist: golf, the emblem of leisure with a membership card, is protected like a sanctum. No one would "dream" of interrupting it. Lee is not just contrasting two activities; she is exposing a hierarchy of respect. In this world, a private recreation performed in public (or at least in a socially sanctioned space) commands more deference than paid labor performed in private. That's the sly cruelty: the very intimacy of home-based work makes it easier to dismiss.
The line carries gendered undertones without naming them. "Working at home" has long been coded as women's terrain: writing, caregiving, household management, all treated as flexible because they are invisible. Golf is coded as male, status-bearing, and unmistakably "time off" that somehow earns more seriousness than someone's actual job. Lee's wit is doing double duty: affectionate about Southern sociability, unsparing about its blind spots, and sharp-eyed about how culture politely enforces who gets to be left alone.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lee, Harper. (2026, January 16). Well, they're Southern people, and if they know you are working at home they think nothing of walking right in for coffee. But they wouldn't dream of interrupting you at golf. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-theyre-southern-people-and-if-they-know-you-101687/
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Lee, Harper. "Well, they're Southern people, and if they know you are working at home they think nothing of walking right in for coffee. But they wouldn't dream of interrupting you at golf." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-theyre-southern-people-and-if-they-know-you-101687/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Well, they're Southern people, and if they know you are working at home they think nothing of walking right in for coffee. But they wouldn't dream of interrupting you at golf." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-theyre-southern-people-and-if-they-know-you-101687/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.




