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Art & Creativity Quote by Vaughn Monroe

"Well, we like to let down our hair and pep it up at the dances, but we keep it slower when we broadcast. We have to please everybody, and that softer music appeals to the larger amount of people. It's like eating too much cake. You have to have your steak too"

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Monroe is admitting, with disarming plainness, that mass culture runs on compromise. In the ballroom, you can "let down our hair and pep it up" because the crowd opted in; they came for heat, volume, risk. Broadcasting is a different animal: the audience didn’t choose you so much as you arrived in their living room between the weather and the soap opera. Radio turns music into furniture, and furniture can’t be too sharp-edged.

The key phrase is "We have to please everybody". It’s not just a practical note about programming; it’s an ethic of midcentury entertainment, when a single channel could plausibly aim for "everybody" and when offending the wrong listener meant angry letters, sponsor jitters, and a tighter leash. Monroe frames this as care for the public, but the subtext is structural: gatekeepers reward the safest tempo, the safest mood, the safest kind of swing. "Softer music appeals to the larger amount of people" is basically an early diagnosis of what we now call the algorithm, only the math was done by sponsors and station managers.

Then he lands on a shrewd food metaphor that makes the deal sound almost healthful. Cake is the thrill - too much and you feel sick; steak is the sustaining, respectable fare that keeps you socially acceptable. He’s defending the bandleader’s split identity: party in private, prudence in public. The line isn’t whining; it’s a professional philosophy for surviving a culture industry that sells excitement, but only in carefully measured doses.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Monroe, Vaughn. (2026, January 16). Well, we like to let down our hair and pep it up at the dances, but we keep it slower when we broadcast. We have to please everybody, and that softer music appeals to the larger amount of people. It's like eating too much cake. You have to have your steak too. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-we-like-to-let-down-our-hair-and-pep-it-up-134856/

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Monroe, Vaughn. "Well, we like to let down our hair and pep it up at the dances, but we keep it slower when we broadcast. We have to please everybody, and that softer music appeals to the larger amount of people. It's like eating too much cake. You have to have your steak too." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-we-like-to-let-down-our-hair-and-pep-it-up-134856/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Well, we like to let down our hair and pep it up at the dances, but we keep it slower when we broadcast. We have to please everybody, and that softer music appeals to the larger amount of people. It's like eating too much cake. You have to have your steak too." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-we-like-to-let-down-our-hair-and-pep-it-up-134856/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.

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Vaughn Monroe (October 7, 1911 - May 21, 1973) was a Musician from USA.

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