"Well, you can't be trying to achieve success of any kind in this business without accepting that there's going to be a flip side to it"
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The subtext is less confession than boundary-setting. By framing the “flip side” as inevitable, she’s pre-empting the audience’s favorite gotcha - Why complain if you chose this? - and answering it with adult clarity: accepting consequences isn’t the same as enjoying them. There’s also a subtle rebuke to the culture that treats fame like pure reward. She doesn’t name the negatives (scrutiny, paparazzi, internet pile-ons, the commodification of motherhood, the way private relationships become public property), but the vagueness is strategic. It invites recognition without offering tabloids a quote they can weaponize.
What makes it work is the plainspoken cadence. No manifesto, no self-pity, no glamour. “Trying to achieve” implies effort, ambition, even hunger - a word women in Hollywood are often punished for owning outright. Garner slips it in anyway, then balances it with realism. It’s a pop-culture version of a labor truth: every job has working conditions. Hers just happen to be televised, litigated, and archived forever.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Garner, Jennifer. (2026, January 16). Well, you can't be trying to achieve success of any kind in this business without accepting that there's going to be a flip side to it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-you-cant-be-trying-to-achieve-success-of-any-136948/
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Garner, Jennifer. "Well, you can't be trying to achieve success of any kind in this business without accepting that there's going to be a flip side to it." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-you-cant-be-trying-to-achieve-success-of-any-136948/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Well, you can't be trying to achieve success of any kind in this business without accepting that there's going to be a flip side to it." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/well-you-cant-be-trying-to-achieve-success-of-any-136948/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











