"We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we're not alone"
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That word is the tell. Coming from an actor and magician of sorts, "illusion" isnt an insult to intimacy; it is his most honest compliment. Welles spent a career proving that what we feel is often inseparable from what is performed: Kane's manufactured legend, the radio panic of War of the Worlds, the elaborate confidence games of F for Fake. He understood how easily human beings accept a story if it meets a hunger. Here the hunger is existential: the desire to be witnessed, to have the solitude briefly contradicted.
The subtext is both tender and wary. Love and friendship are not presented as permanent cures, but as temporary lighting cues that make the set look warmer. That guardedness carries the biography: public genius, private turbulence, relationships strained by ego, ambition, and exile. When Welles calls connection an illusion "for the moment", hes admitting how fragile it feels even when its real.
The intent, ultimately, is to puncture sentimental fantasies without surrendering to nihilism. If togetherness is partly a shared fiction, it is also the finest one we can make.
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| Topic | Loneliness |
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Welles, Orson. (2026, January 14). We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we're not alone. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/were-born-alone-we-live-alone-we-die-alone-only-9412/
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Welles, Orson. "We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we're not alone." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/were-born-alone-we-live-alone-we-die-alone-only-9412/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we're not alone." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/were-born-alone-we-live-alone-we-die-alone-only-9412/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.





