"We're both accustomed to being the center of attention. We're both accustomed to being spoiled by the people around us. And we don't expect to have to compete with somebody for all of that"
About this Quote
The quote’s real subject is scarcity. Attention is treated as a finite resource, and the line “we don’t expect to have to compete” exposes the quiet delusion at the heart of fame: that admiration is an atmosphere you breathe, not a market you constantly re-enter. “Spoiled by the people around us” is also doing double duty. It admits dependence on enablers - handlers, friends, partners, staff - while subtly shifting responsibility outward. If you’re spoiled, someone is doing the spoiling; the ecosystem, not just the individual, is implicated.
Contextually, it reads like a candid postmortem of a relationship or partnership between two public-facing personalities. Lampley frames the conflict as structural rather than personal: two centers of gravity placed in the same room. That’s why it works. It punctures the romantic myth that charisma automatically harmonizes; sometimes it collides. The honesty is disarming because it’s unglamorous: fame isn’t just adoration, it’s a learned expectation that the room will rearrange itself around you - until someone else insists on the same privilege.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lampley, Jim. (2026, January 15). We're both accustomed to being the center of attention. We're both accustomed to being spoiled by the people around us. And we don't expect to have to compete with somebody for all of that. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/were-both-accustomed-to-being-the-center-of-153588/
Chicago Style
Lampley, Jim. "We're both accustomed to being the center of attention. We're both accustomed to being spoiled by the people around us. And we don't expect to have to compete with somebody for all of that." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/were-both-accustomed-to-being-the-center-of-153588/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We're both accustomed to being the center of attention. We're both accustomed to being spoiled by the people around us. And we don't expect to have to compete with somebody for all of that." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/were-both-accustomed-to-being-the-center-of-153588/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.







