"We're kind of defined by our mistakes"
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The subtext is anti-myth. Rock culture sells the legend: the perfectly arced rise, the genius album, the clean redemption story. Shaw’s line pushes back against that narrative, suggesting identity is less a curated highlight reel than the bruise pattern left by choices you can’t unchoose. That’s especially pointed in a music world where reputations are built fast and punished forever - one bad record, one public meltdown, one ugly quote, and your "brand" hardens into a cautionary tale.
Contextually, for artists of Shaw’s generation, mistakes aren’t abstract. They’re contracts signed too young, band politics, addiction in the orbit, the whiplash of fame and its hangover. The intent isn’t despair; it’s a pragmatic kind of self-ownership. If mistakes help define you, you can’t outsource your story to publicists or nostalgia. You have to live with it, learn from it, and, if you’re lucky, turn it into a song.
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| Topic | Learning from Mistakes |
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Shaw, Tommy. (2026, January 16). We're kind of defined by our mistakes. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/were-kind-of-defined-by-our-mistakes-102719/
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Shaw, Tommy. "We're kind of defined by our mistakes." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/were-kind-of-defined-by-our-mistakes-102719/.
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"We're kind of defined by our mistakes." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/were-kind-of-defined-by-our-mistakes-102719/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.






