"We're so afraid of death in our culture, but I think if we understand it better, then we'll appreciate the life we have more"
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The line works because it diagnoses death anxiety as cultural, not purely personal. “In our culture” lightly indicts a Western habit of outsourcing mortality to hospitals, euphemisms, and curated wellness. Death is either hidden or sensationalized; neither approach builds fluency. Watts proposes “understanding” as a corrective, but she doesn’t romanticize it. The subtext is pragmatic: if you stop treating death as taboo, you stop wasting emotional bandwidth on avoidance. Appreciation becomes less gratitude-journal performance and more attention - to time, to relationships, to the unglamorous present.
There’s also a subtle rejection of celebrity invulnerability. When a famous person admits fear, it could be a brand-softening maneuver; here, the aim feels different. She’s arguing for literacy in the one plot twist nobody escapes. In an era of anti-aging fixes and algorithmic distraction, her message reads as a cultural counterspell: look directly at the ending, and the middle stops feeling so disposable.
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| Topic | Mortality |
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Watts, Naomi. (2026, January 15). We're so afraid of death in our culture, but I think if we understand it better, then we'll appreciate the life we have more. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/were-so-afraid-of-death-in-our-culture-but-i-103780/
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Watts, Naomi. "We're so afraid of death in our culture, but I think if we understand it better, then we'll appreciate the life we have more." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/were-so-afraid-of-death-in-our-culture-but-i-103780/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We're so afraid of death in our culture, but I think if we understand it better, then we'll appreciate the life we have more." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/were-so-afraid-of-death-in-our-culture-but-i-103780/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.





