"We're warriors, this culture, and we're very puritanical about sex and very embracing about violence and I don't know why that is"
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What makes the quote work is the way it refuses to tidy the paradox. “Very embracing about violence” is blunt, almost childlike in phrasing, which mirrors how normalized violence has become: it’s not argued for, it’s simply present, packaged, and celebrated. Coming from an actor - especially one embedded in Hollywood’s violence-as-entertainment machine - the critique carries an implicating edge. He’s not speaking from above the culture; he’s inside the apparatus that sells it.
“I don’t know why that is” reads less like ignorance than a deliberate exposure of how irrational the bargain is. We’ve inherited the moral math without ever justifying it: sex must be censored, violence can be aestheticized. The subtext is that this isn’t an accident of taste; it’s a social control pattern, protecting certain hierarchies by shaming intimacy while rewarding domination.
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| Topic | War |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ruffalo, Mark. (2026, January 16). We're warriors, this culture, and we're very puritanical about sex and very embracing about violence and I don't know why that is. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/were-warriors-this-culture-and-were-very-93140/
Chicago Style
Ruffalo, Mark. "We're warriors, this culture, and we're very puritanical about sex and very embracing about violence and I don't know why that is." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/were-warriors-this-culture-and-were-very-93140/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We're warriors, this culture, and we're very puritanical about sex and very embracing about violence and I don't know why that is." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/were-warriors-this-culture-and-were-very-93140/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






