"We've always been a bit out of touch with reality"
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Jarvis Cocker’s genius has always been making misfit status sound like both an accident and a strategy. “We’ve always been a bit out of touch with reality” lands like a shrug you can dance to: lightly self-deprecating on the surface, quietly damning underneath. The “we” is doing heavy lifting. It’s not just Cocker confessing his own eccentric wiring; it’s an invitation into a collective identity - Pulp, Britpop, the northern art-school scruffiness that watched “Cool Britannia” turn class tension into a photo op.
The line works because it refuses the usual rock-star myth of authenticity. Instead of claiming truth, it admits distortion. Being “out of touch” can mean sheltered, pretentious, or delusional; Cocker flips it into a form of clarity. If reality is the glossy consensus - the laddish bravado, the celebrity sheen, the idea that success proves you deserve it - then detachment becomes a way to see the seams. Pulp’s songs are basically case studies in people roleplaying adulthood, desire, and status; this quote is the mission statement for that observational stance.
There’s also a defensive tenderness here. “A bit” softens the admission, like he’s managing embarrassment before anyone else can weaponize it. It signals a life spent half inside the mainstream and half heckling it from the curb. In a culture that rewards certainty and punishes awkwardness, Cocker turns disconnection into an ethic: stay slightly misaligned, and you might notice what everyone else is pretending not to.
The line works because it refuses the usual rock-star myth of authenticity. Instead of claiming truth, it admits distortion. Being “out of touch” can mean sheltered, pretentious, or delusional; Cocker flips it into a form of clarity. If reality is the glossy consensus - the laddish bravado, the celebrity sheen, the idea that success proves you deserve it - then detachment becomes a way to see the seams. Pulp’s songs are basically case studies in people roleplaying adulthood, desire, and status; this quote is the mission statement for that observational stance.
There’s also a defensive tenderness here. “A bit” softens the admission, like he’s managing embarrassment before anyone else can weaponize it. It signals a life spent half inside the mainstream and half heckling it from the curb. In a culture that rewards certainty and punishes awkwardness, Cocker turns disconnection into an ethic: stay slightly misaligned, and you might notice what everyone else is pretending not to.
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