"We've been taught to believe that actions speak louder than words. But I think words speak pretty loud all of our lives; we carry these words in our head"
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The intent is corrective, almost maternal without being soft. “Actions speak louder” is the slogan you use to distrust talkers and reward doers, but it also becomes a permission slip to dismiss harm that arrives as language: the casual insult, the threat disguised as a joke, the constant “you’re too much.” Thomas’s counterclaim is that words don’t vanish when the conversation ends. They install themselves. They become scripts we perform back to ourselves, shaping confidence, shame, ambition, and what we think we deserve.
There’s subtext here about gender and credibility, too. Women, especially in public life, are routinely told to stop talking, to be “practical,” to prove it. Thomas reframes speech as consequence, not decoration. In a culture saturated by media and branding - where catchphrases, captions, and commentary chase us all day - her line lands as both warning and empowerment: choose your words carefully, because they don’t just describe a life. They help write it.
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Thomas, Marlo. (n.d.). We've been taught to believe that actions speak louder than words. But I think words speak pretty loud all of our lives; we carry these words in our head. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/weve-been-taught-to-believe-that-actions-speak-165437/
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Thomas, Marlo. "We've been taught to believe that actions speak louder than words. But I think words speak pretty loud all of our lives; we carry these words in our head." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/weve-been-taught-to-believe-that-actions-speak-165437/.
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"We've been taught to believe that actions speak louder than words. But I think words speak pretty loud all of our lives; we carry these words in our head." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/weve-been-taught-to-believe-that-actions-speak-165437/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.







