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Parenting & Family Quote by Ringo Starr

"We've got the children so we have to deal with each other because we have to deal with children's problems, you know, and our own problems. But some days it's fine, and then some days we just are at each other's throat"

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Domestic peace, in Ringo Starr's telling, isn't a moral achievement so much as a day-to-day negotiation forced by logistics. The line lands because it refuses the mythology of the permanently harmonious family. Kids aren't presented as a romantic glue; they're the reason you can't storm off and stay gone. "We've got the children" is both tender and transactional: a bond, yes, but also an unskippable responsibility that keeps two adults in the same room long after the vibe has curdled.

Starr's language does the cultural work of demystifying celebrity intimacy. There's no poetic phrasing, no Beatles-era mysticism, just the blunt rhythm of real life: problems stacked on problems, children's problems braided with "our own". That pairing is the subtext. Parenting doesn't replace adult conflict; it amplifies it, because personal baggage still needs airtime even as the school run, bedtime, and money worries keep arriving on schedule.

The most revealing turn is the casual swing between "some days it's fine" and "some days we just are at each other's throat". It's the sound of someone describing a weather system, not a scandal. In the late-20th-century celebrity ecosystem that often sells either perfect domesticity or total implosion, Starr occupies a third lane: endurance as an unglamorous practice. The quote's intent isn't to confess so much as to normalize the oscillation, insisting that commitment isn't constant bliss; it's showing up, even when you're furious, because the children need breakfast either way.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Starr, Ringo. (n.d.). We've got the children so we have to deal with each other because we have to deal with children's problems, you know, and our own problems. But some days it's fine, and then some days we just are at each other's throat. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/weve-got-the-children-so-we-have-to-deal-with-64443/

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Starr, Ringo. "We've got the children so we have to deal with each other because we have to deal with children's problems, you know, and our own problems. But some days it's fine, and then some days we just are at each other's throat." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/weve-got-the-children-so-we-have-to-deal-with-64443/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We've got the children so we have to deal with each other because we have to deal with children's problems, you know, and our own problems. But some days it's fine, and then some days we just are at each other's throat." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/weve-got-the-children-so-we-have-to-deal-with-64443/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Ringo Starr (born July 7, 1940) is a Musician from England.

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