"We've got this gift of love, but love is like a precious plant. You can't just accept it and leave it in the cupboard or just think it's going to get on by itself. You've got to keep watering it. You've got to really look after it and nurture it"
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The intent is almost corrective, even slightly impatient. Lennon isn’t selling love as a feeling; he’s arguing for love as maintenance. The repeated “you’ve got to” is the tell. It’s not poetic license, it’s a hard beat, like a drummer counting time. He’s insisting on responsibility: attention, care, repeat. And by choosing “cupboard” - a place where you hide clutter - he flags the way people treat partners like possessions: acquired, stored, assumed.
Context matters because Lennon’s public life was a tug-of-war between spectacle and intimacy. The Beatles machine turned emotion into product; the late-60s counterculture turned “love” into a slogan. In that noise, this metaphor reads as a private rebuttal: love isn’t a banner you wave, it’s a practice you return to. Even the word “nurture” drags love out of the abstract and into the everyday, where the real moral test is not how loudly you believe in it, but whether you show up for it when nothing is trending.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lennon, John. (2026, January 18). We've got this gift of love, but love is like a precious plant. You can't just accept it and leave it in the cupboard or just think it's going to get on by itself. You've got to keep watering it. You've got to really look after it and nurture it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/weve-got-this-gift-of-love-but-love-is-like-a-22174/
Chicago Style
Lennon, John. "We've got this gift of love, but love is like a precious plant. You can't just accept it and leave it in the cupboard or just think it's going to get on by itself. You've got to keep watering it. You've got to really look after it and nurture it." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/weve-got-this-gift-of-love-but-love-is-like-a-22174/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We've got this gift of love, but love is like a precious plant. You can't just accept it and leave it in the cupboard or just think it's going to get on by itself. You've got to keep watering it. You've got to really look after it and nurture it." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/weve-got-this-gift-of-love-but-love-is-like-a-22174/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.











