"We've got to get women to sit at the table"
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The intent is both exhortation and reassurance. Sandberg is coaching women to claim authority in settings where authority is rationed through meeting dynamics, sponsorship, and the quiet politics of whose voice gets credited. The subtext, though, is more complicated: the burden subtly shifts toward the excluded. If the problem is that women aren’t sitting, then the remedy is confidence and posture, not paid leave, promotion pipelines, harassment enforcement, or rethinking how “leadership” is coded as masculine. That framing helped “Lean In” become an anthem for ambition while inviting criticism that it was optimized for professional-class women already near the table.
Context matters: early-2010s tech and finance were evangelizing meritocracy as their brand while reproducing old hierarchies at startup speed. Sandberg, a high-status insider, translated feminism into management language: actionable, upbeat, nonthreatening. It works because it offers belonging without revolution - an invitation to enter the room rather than set it on fire. The line’s lasting tension is its promise and its limit: you can pull up a chair, but you still have to ask who built the table, who controls the guest list, and who gets to call the meeting.
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"We've got to get women to sit at the table." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/weve-got-to-get-women-to-sit-at-the-table-154800/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.



