"We've never been a religious band, but the media wants us to be"
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The sharper cut is in the second clause: “but the media wants us to be.” That “wants” is doing real work. It implies an external appetite, not an honest misunderstanding. The press isn’t merely mislabeling; it’s shopping for a storyline that’s easy to sell, easy to debate, and easy to target. Religious categorization turns a band into a culture-war prop, a click-ready identity that can be packaged for niche markets or used as a controversy engine. It also subtly polices women in rock: if a frontwoman writes with emotional intensity and metaphysical vocabulary, she’s treated as confessional, literal, and legible - as if ambiguity is a luxury reserved for everyone else.
Lee’s intent, then, is control: reclaiming authorship over the band’s meaning. The subtext is frustration with an industry that flattens art into demographics. By pushing back, she’s defending the right to be messy, symbolic, and unresolved - which is exactly where Evanescence’s music tends to live.
Quote Details
| Topic | Music |
|---|---|
| Source | Wikiquote — Amy Lee page: contains the quote “We've never been a religious band, but the media wants us to be” (primary interview not specified on the page). |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lee, Amy. (n.d.). We've never been a religious band, but the media wants us to be. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/weve-never-been-a-religious-band-but-the-media-109023/
Chicago Style
Lee, Amy. "We've never been a religious band, but the media wants us to be." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/weve-never-been-a-religious-band-but-the-media-109023/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We've never been a religious band, but the media wants us to be." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/weve-never-been-a-religious-band-but-the-media-109023/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.


