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Daily Inspiration Quote by Agnes Smedley

"What a couple. I'm consumed into ashes. And he's always raking up the ashes and setting them on fire again"

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Self-immolation as romance: Smedley’s line turns a relationship into an arson scene, then refuses to let it stay metaphor. "Consumed into ashes" suggests not just exhaustion but total conversion of self into residue - identity reduced to what’s left after feeling has burned through every usable part. The punch comes in the second sentence, where the partner isn’t merely negligent or cruel; he is industrious. He "rakes up" the ashes like a caretaker of a hearth, performing the gestures of maintenance while engineering another blaze. It’s domestic labor repurposed as emotional sabotage.

As a journalist who lived through revolutions, prisons, and the constant suspicion that trailed radical politics in the early 20th century, Smedley knew how devotion and danger can braid together. The image fits a life where love is rarely private. When your work is entangled with movements, men, and causes that demand total commitment, the boundary between passion and depletion gets thin. The "couple" is almost sardonic: a tidy label for something that behaves more like a cycle of extraction.

Subtext-wise, the line indicts a familiar dynamic in intellectual and political milieus: the charismatic man who feeds off the woman’s intensity, then frames her collapse as proof of her passion. He keeps the narrative going by re-igniting what should have been an ending. Ashes are supposed to mean aftermath; Smedley weaponizes the fact that aftermath can be curated, even reanimated, by someone who benefits from the fire.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Smedley, Agnes. (2026, January 17). What a couple. I'm consumed into ashes. And he's always raking up the ashes and setting them on fire again. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-a-couple-im-consumed-into-ashes-and-hes-36850/

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Smedley, Agnes. "What a couple. I'm consumed into ashes. And he's always raking up the ashes and setting them on fire again." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-a-couple-im-consumed-into-ashes-and-hes-36850/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"What a couple. I'm consumed into ashes. And he's always raking up the ashes and setting them on fire again." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-a-couple-im-consumed-into-ashes-and-hes-36850/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.

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Agnes Smedley (February 23, 1892 - May 6, 1950) was a Journalist from USA.

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