"What a man does defiles him, not what is done by others"
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The phrasing matters. “Defiles” isn’t “harms” or “compromises”; it’s a word soaked in ritual and shame, suggesting a stain that clings, not a bruise that heals. Golding’s intent isn’t self-help accountability. It’s darker: action reveals what you are, and once revealed, it marks you. That’s why the second clause is so bluntly dismissive. “Not what is done by others” refuses the popular alibi of victimhood as moral exemption. Being wronged can explain you, even break you, but it doesn’t launder what you choose next.
In Golding’s world (think Lord of the Flies and the postwar British imagination that produced it), “others” is also the mob: the collective energy that makes cruelty feel anonymous and therefore excusable. He’s cutting through that fog. The subtext is a warning about how quickly ordinary people reach for moral accounting tricks: I was pressured, I was following, I had no choice. Golding’s answer is mercilessly simple: your hands are your hands.
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"What a man does defiles him, not what is done by others." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-a-man-does-defiles-him-not-what-is-done-by-121501/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.













