"What a man is ashamed of is always at bottom himself; and he is ashamed of himself at bottom always for being afraid"
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The pivot is his hard claim that fear is the bedrock. Not fear as a reasonable alarm, but fear as self-betrayal: the recognition that you were governed by avoidance when you wanted to imagine yourself governed by principle. That’s why shame stings differently than guilt. Guilt can be “repaired” by restitution. Shame feels like exposure because it threatens the narrative of who you are. Collingwood is saying the narrative cracks precisely where courage should have been.
Context matters: writing in an early 20th-century Britain anxious about decadence, moral drift, and the demands of public duty, Collingwood is steeped in a tradition that treats character as action, not mood. His philosophy presses against the idea that emotions are merely private weather. Shame becomes political and ethical in the same breath: a citizenry trained to be afraid will develop elaborate codes of “respectability” to disguise it, then punish in others the cowardice it can’t admit in itself.
The subtext is bracing: if you want to understand your values, don’t listen to your speeches. Watch where you flush, where you hide, where you hesitate. That’s your fear talking, and your self taking notes.
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| Topic | Fear |
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Collingwood, Robin G. (2026, January 15). What a man is ashamed of is always at bottom himself; and he is ashamed of himself at bottom always for being afraid. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-a-man-is-ashamed-of-is-always-at-bottom-164941/
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"What a man is ashamed of is always at bottom himself; and he is ashamed of himself at bottom always for being afraid." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-a-man-is-ashamed-of-is-always-at-bottom-164941/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.












