Parenting & Family Quote by Kathryn Stockett

The bite of Stockett's line is how it turns the South's favorite self-image - gracious, family-centered, Christian - into an indictment. The sentence stacks intimate verbs like evidence: raise our children, feed us, bathe us. These are acts that require proximity, trust, even tenderness. If white families can hand over their infants and their bodies to Black women, Stockett implies, then segregation isn't about hygiene or tradition. It's about power dressed up as propriety.

The genius is the word "entrust", which sounds noble until you notice its ownership logic. You entrust someone with your most precious responsibilities, but you don't grant them equal dignity. That imbalance is the engine of Jim Crow: a society willing to consume Black labor and affection while policing Black presence. "Something as silly as a bathroom" lands like a controlled slap. She doesn't deny the bathroom's symbolic importance; she exposes its absurdity as a social technology, a small door that keeps the racial hierarchy intact.

Context matters here: Stockett is writing into the world of domestic work in mid-century Mississippi, popularized by The Help, where Black maids are treated as family right up until they're treated as contamination. The line is crafted to puncture the comforting myth that racism is mainly private hatred. It's also architecture, etiquette, and rules that survive precisely because they can be framed as "just the way things are" - until someone forces the contradiction into plain speech.