"What do I owe to my times, to my country, to my neighbors, to my friends? Such are the questions which a virtuous man ought often to ask himself"
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As an 18th-century Protestant theologian, Lavater is speaking from a world where the self is always in dialogue with God, community, and social order. That context sharpens the line’s intent: he’s trying to discipline the emerging modern individualism by insisting that character is proved in what you give back. The verb “owe” is deliberately transactional. It strips virtue of sentimentality and recasts it as responsibility, with debts that accumulate whether or not you feel generous.
The subtext is a warning aimed at complacency. A “virtuous man” doesn’t ask these questions once, like a confession; he asks them “often,” because the self is slippery and moral luck changes. There’s also an implicit hierarchy of obligations: not just to friends (the easy circle), but to neighbors (the inconvenient ones) and to “times” (the demands history makes). In an age of personal branding and curated compassion, Lavater’s line still stings: virtue begins where your obligations stop being optional.
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Lavater, Johann Kaspar. (2026, January 15). What do I owe to my times, to my country, to my neighbors, to my friends? Such are the questions which a virtuous man ought often to ask himself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-do-i-owe-to-my-times-to-my-country-to-my-11375/
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Lavater, Johann Kaspar. "What do I owe to my times, to my country, to my neighbors, to my friends? Such are the questions which a virtuous man ought often to ask himself." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-do-i-owe-to-my-times-to-my-country-to-my-11375/.
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"What do I owe to my times, to my country, to my neighbors, to my friends? Such are the questions which a virtuous man ought often to ask himself." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-do-i-owe-to-my-times-to-my-country-to-my-11375/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.












