"What do we live for, if not to make life less difficult for each other?"
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The subtext is sharper than the sentiment. “Less difficult” assumes life is, by default, hard - not because the universe is cruel in an abstract way, but because humans complicate it: pride, gossip, poverty, gendered constraints, bad institutions, bad timing. Eliot’s realism is an ethic: if you’re paying attention to other people’s inner lives, cruelty becomes harder to justify. This line is empathy with teeth, a rebuke to self-mythologizing and to the Victorian obsession with moral “deservingness.”
Contextually, Eliot wrote as Marian Evans, a woman who took a male pen name and lived outside respectable norms. She knew how quickly society makes things difficult on purpose. So the question doubles as a quiet indictment of status, judgment, and moral exhibitionism. It’s not asking for martyrdom; it’s asking for the practical decency that prevents suffering from multiplying. In a culture addicted to individual achievement, Eliot offers a different prestige: being the person who lightens the load.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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"What do we live for, if not to make life less difficult for each other?" FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-do-we-live-for-if-not-to-make-life-less-36210/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









