"What, do you think that feminism means you hate men?"
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Lauper’s question lands like a pop hook: quick, bright, and designed to expose how ridiculous the chorus has become. The line isn’t really a request for information; it’s a trapdoor. By phrasing it as an incredulous “What, do you think...,” she stages a miniature intervention in the listener’s assumptions, forcing the anti-feminist reflex to show itself. It’s the conversational equivalent of rewinding the tape and asking, “Wait, that’s what you heard?”
The intent is corrective, but not scolding. Lauper’s persona has always been loud, playful, and disarmingly sincere; that matters here. She uses a familiar stereotype - feminism as man-hatred - and punctures it with a simple, almost teasing disbelief. The subtext is strategic: the myth that feminism is anti-men isn’t just wrong, it’s useful. It keeps the focus on men’s feelings rather than women’s rights, reframing a political demand as a personal attack. Lauper sidesteps the seminar-room definition of feminism and goes straight for the cultural misread that blocks the conversation.
Contextually, a pop musician making this point is the point. Lauper came up in an era when “girls just want to have fun” was already a political provocation in glitter. Her question acknowledges a mainstream audience that may like the music and still bristle at the politics. It’s a bridge-building move: you can be pro-women without being anti-men. The real sting is that she’s asking why anyone needed to be reassured of that in the first place.
The intent is corrective, but not scolding. Lauper’s persona has always been loud, playful, and disarmingly sincere; that matters here. She uses a familiar stereotype - feminism as man-hatred - and punctures it with a simple, almost teasing disbelief. The subtext is strategic: the myth that feminism is anti-men isn’t just wrong, it’s useful. It keeps the focus on men’s feelings rather than women’s rights, reframing a political demand as a personal attack. Lauper sidesteps the seminar-room definition of feminism and goes straight for the cultural misread that blocks the conversation.
Contextually, a pop musician making this point is the point. Lauper came up in an era when “girls just want to have fun” was already a political provocation in glitter. Her question acknowledges a mainstream audience that may like the music and still bristle at the politics. It’s a bridge-building move: you can be pro-women without being anti-men. The real sting is that she’s asking why anyone needed to be reassured of that in the first place.
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| Topic | Equality |
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