"What, do you think that feminism means you hate men?"
About this Quote
The intent is corrective, but not scolding. Lauper’s persona has always been loud, playful, and disarmingly sincere; that matters here. She uses a familiar stereotype - feminism as man-hatred - and punctures it with a simple, almost teasing disbelief. The subtext is strategic: the myth that feminism is anti-men isn’t just wrong, it’s useful. It keeps the focus on men’s feelings rather than women’s rights, reframing a political demand as a personal attack. Lauper sidesteps the seminar-room definition of feminism and goes straight for the cultural misread that blocks the conversation.
Contextually, a pop musician making this point is the point. Lauper came up in an era when “girls just want to have fun” was already a political provocation in glitter. Her question acknowledges a mainstream audience that may like the music and still bristle at the politics. It’s a bridge-building move: you can be pro-women without being anti-men. The real sting is that she’s asking why anyone needed to be reassured of that in the first place.
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| Topic | Equality |
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Lauper, Cyndi. (2026, January 16). What, do you think that feminism means you hate men? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-do-you-think-that-feminism-means-you-hate-men-121183/
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Lauper, Cyndi. "What, do you think that feminism means you hate men?" FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-do-you-think-that-feminism-means-you-hate-men-121183/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"What, do you think that feminism means you hate men?" FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-do-you-think-that-feminism-means-you-hate-men-121183/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.




