"What does the truth matter? Haven't we mothers all given our sons a taste for lies, lies which from the cradle upwards lull them, reassure them, send them to sleep: lies as soft and warm as a breast!"
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The subtext is brutal: our appetite for illusion is learned as love. By framing lies as something "from the cradle upwards" that "lull", "reassure", and "send them to sleep", he links deception to care, not malice. The image does the heavy lifting. "Soft and warm as a breast" is deliberately unsettling: the very source of nourishment becomes the metaphor for falsehood. Bernanos is suggesting that the first lies are not cover-ups but consolations, stories we tell children so they can survive fear, uncertainty, and the raw fact of mortality. Then those consolations harden into a lifelong preference for soothing narratives over difficult realities.
Context matters. Bernanos, a Catholic novelist and moralist writing in a Europe chewed up by war, mass politics, and spiritual fatigue, distrusted any culture that chose comfort over conscience. Read against the 20th century's machinery of persuasion, the line lands as a warning: a society doesn't need to teach citizens to lie if it teaches them to crave being lied to. The sting is that he locates the origin of that craving in the place we least want to suspect.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bernanos, Georges. (2026, January 18). What does the truth matter? Haven't we mothers all given our sons a taste for lies, lies which from the cradle upwards lull them, reassure them, send them to sleep: lies as soft and warm as a breast! FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-does-the-truth-matter-havent-we-mothers-all-8800/
Chicago Style
Bernanos, Georges. "What does the truth matter? Haven't we mothers all given our sons a taste for lies, lies which from the cradle upwards lull them, reassure them, send them to sleep: lies as soft and warm as a breast!" FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-does-the-truth-matter-havent-we-mothers-all-8800/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"What does the truth matter? Haven't we mothers all given our sons a taste for lies, lies which from the cradle upwards lull them, reassure them, send them to sleep: lies as soft and warm as a breast!" FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-does-the-truth-matter-havent-we-mothers-all-8800/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










