"What girls do to each other is beyond description. No Chinese torture comes close"
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Then she detonates the metaphor: “No chinese torture comes close.” It’s a jarring, over-the-top comparison that does two things at once. It dramatizes the slow, cumulative nature of social aggression - the drip-drip erosion of confidence, belonging, and identity - and it exposes how easily people reach for sensational language to make emotional pain legible. The line is meant to shock, to force a listener to stop treating relational violence as “drama” and start hearing it as injury.
Context matters: Amos’ work has long mapped the interior politics of girlhood and womanhood - desire, shame, competition, survival - in a culture that trains women to be each other’s auditors and rivals. The subtext isn’t that girls are inherently vicious; it’s that femininity is often policed through proximity. When direct power is limited, power games go subterranean: exclusion, rumor, aesthetic judgment, sexual reputations weaponized. Amos’ provocation indicts the environment that rewards that behavior, even as it leaves the perpetrators and the bruised sharing the same small room.
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| Topic | Betrayal |
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Amos, Tori. (2026, February 18). What girls do to each other is beyond description. No Chinese torture comes close. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-girls-do-to-each-other-is-beyond-description-78705/
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Amos, Tori. "What girls do to each other is beyond description. No Chinese torture comes close." FixQuotes. February 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-girls-do-to-each-other-is-beyond-description-78705/.
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"What girls do to each other is beyond description. No Chinese torture comes close." FixQuotes, 18 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-girls-do-to-each-other-is-beyond-description-78705/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.






