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"What I am defending is the real rights of women. A woman should have the right to be in the home as a wife and mother"

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Schlafly’s genius was selling retrenchment as liberation. “What I am defending is the real rights of women” opens like a civil-rights manifesto, then snaps into a narrower definition of “rights” that looks less like choice and more like a prescribed job description: “in the home as a wife and mother.” The rhetorical trick is in the adjective “real.” It doesn’t argue with feminists on policy so much as on legitimacy, implying that the women demanding workplace equality, legal autonomy, or reproductive freedom are chasing counterfeit freedoms.

Intent-wise, the line works as a political shield for anti-ERA activism: frame opposition not as hostility to women, but as protection of women’s supposedly natural domain. Subtext: feminism is a kind of coercion that drags women away from their proper refuge; traditional marriage is recast as a right under siege, not an institution with power dynamics. It’s an inversion that flatters its audience: you’re not conservative, you’re embattled. You’re not dependent, you’re dignified.

Context matters because Schlafly delivered this message while living a life that complicated it: a high-profile organizer, fundraiser, author, and media presence. That contradiction wasn’t a bug; it was the pitch. Her public authority modeled the very political agency she rhetorically reserved for defending the home. The quote lands because it doesn’t sound like policing; it sounds like permission. And in the 1970s backlash to social change, permission - to opt out, to stay put, to call it virtue - was a powerful counter-movement brand.

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Schlafly, Phyllis. (n.d.). What I am defending is the real rights of women. A woman should have the right to be in the home as a wife and mother. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-i-am-defending-is-the-real-rights-of-women-a-94654/

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Schlafly, Phyllis. "What I am defending is the real rights of women. A woman should have the right to be in the home as a wife and mother." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-i-am-defending-is-the-real-rights-of-women-a-94654/.

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"What I am defending is the real rights of women. A woman should have the right to be in the home as a wife and mother." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-i-am-defending-is-the-real-rights-of-women-a-94654/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Phyllis Schlafly (August 15, 1924 - September 5, 2016) was a Activist from USA.

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