"What I am trying to get across to you; is, please take of yourselves, and those that you love; because that is what we are hear for, that's all we got, and that is all we can take with us. Are you with me?"
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The line works because it’s both intimate and communal. He doesn’t say “be good” or “behave.” He says take care - a practical verb, almost domestic, pointed at bodies and relationships. That’s the subtext: the music world sells the myth that you’re only as real as your damage, but Vaughan is quietly flipping that script. Love isn’t framed as romance; it’s responsibility. The payoff is blunt: “that’s all we got.” No metaphysical escape hatch, no legacy talk. Just the inventory of what’s left when the lights come up.
And then the closer: “Are you with me?” It’s a performer’s call-and-response, but also a consent check, a plea for attention in a culture that mistakes self-destruction for authenticity. Vaughan’s intent is to make care sound rebellious - a message smuggled into a night out, timed perfectly before it’s too late.
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| Topic | Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Vaughan, Stevie Ray. (2026, February 18). What I am trying to get across to you; is, please take of yourselves, and those that you love; because that is what we are hear for, that's all we got, and that is all we can take with us. Are you with me? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-i-am-trying-to-get-across-to-you-is-please-84200/
Chicago Style
Vaughan, Stevie Ray. "What I am trying to get across to you; is, please take of yourselves, and those that you love; because that is what we are hear for, that's all we got, and that is all we can take with us. Are you with me?" FixQuotes. February 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-i-am-trying-to-get-across-to-you-is-please-84200/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"What I am trying to get across to you; is, please take of yourselves, and those that you love; because that is what we are hear for, that's all we got, and that is all we can take with us. Are you with me?" FixQuotes, 18 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-i-am-trying-to-get-across-to-you-is-please-84200/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.








