"What I really wanted to know, though, was what it was like to be a geisha? Where do you sleep? What do you eat? How do you have your hair done?"
About this Quote
The subtext is the classic tourist gaze: if you can inventory someone's routines, you can imagine you've understood them. "What it was like" promises interiority, but the follow-up questions deliver surfaces. Hair, especially, is doing heavy cultural work. Geisha hair is labor, discipline, and public identity, but it's also an exoticized symbol Western readers have been trained to fixate on. Golden leans into that obsession because it pulls readers in quickly, translating unfamiliar worlds through bodily maintenance and ritual.
Context makes the intent sharper. Memoirs of a Geisha was built for a global audience primed for a feminized, mysterious Japan - intricate, sensual, secretive. This line performs the doorway move: it invites you to enter through the ordinary so you don't notice how much power sits behind the act of looking. The questions sound intimate, but they're also extractive, treating a woman's life as a catalog you can flip through.
Quote Details
| Topic | Learning |
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| Source | Memoirs of a Geisha — Arthur Golden (1997), novel; contains the quoted lines in the book's early narrative. |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Golden, Arthur. (2026, January 15). What I really wanted to know, though, was what it was like to be a geisha? Where do you sleep? What do you eat? How do you have your hair done? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-i-really-wanted-to-know-though-was-what-it-169271/
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Golden, Arthur. "What I really wanted to know, though, was what it was like to be a geisha? Where do you sleep? What do you eat? How do you have your hair done?" FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-i-really-wanted-to-know-though-was-what-it-169271/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"What I really wanted to know, though, was what it was like to be a geisha? Where do you sleep? What do you eat? How do you have your hair done?" FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-i-really-wanted-to-know-though-was-what-it-169271/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.





