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Parenting & Family Quote by Anne McCaffrey

"What I used to do between writing fits was feed my kids, ride my horse and go shopping for cat and dog food"

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Domestic realism is doing a lot of quiet myth-busting here. Anne McCaffrey, a writer famous for epic scale and dragon-sized imagination, shrinks the camera down to the unglamorous logistics that actually make a writing life possible: children need dinner, animals need care, errands don’t pause for inspiration. The phrase “writing fits” is the sly engine of the quote. It makes creativity sound less like a refined vocation and more like a bodily event - involuntary, disruptive, unpredictable. You don’t schedule a “fit.” You survive it, then you return to the chores.

That’s the subtext: the romantic image of the author as a solitary genius collapses under the weight of pet food and parenting. McCaffrey isn’t apologizing for that collision; she’s normalizing it. By listing tasks in a single breath - feed, ride, shop - she implies a life stitched together from competing demands, where art happens in the seams. The horse is a pointed detail, too: not a quaint symbol, but evidence of a physically anchored routine, an existence outside the page that still insists on daily maintenance.

Context matters. McCaffrey built her career in a period when women writers were often expected to be domestic first and “serious” artists second. The quote reads like a refusal to treat those roles as mutually exclusive. It’s also a reminder that production isn’t always sanctified; sometimes it’s just managed. The intent feels practical, almost deflationary: great work can come from a life that looks, from the outside, like ordinary hustle.

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McCaffrey, Anne. (2026, January 17). What I used to do between writing fits was feed my kids, ride my horse and go shopping for cat and dog food. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-i-used-to-do-between-writing-fits-was-feed-36112/

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McCaffrey, Anne. "What I used to do between writing fits was feed my kids, ride my horse and go shopping for cat and dog food." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-i-used-to-do-between-writing-fits-was-feed-36112/.

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"What I used to do between writing fits was feed my kids, ride my horse and go shopping for cat and dog food." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-i-used-to-do-between-writing-fits-was-feed-36112/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Anne McCaffrey

Anne McCaffrey (April 1, 1926 - November 21, 2011) was a Author from USA.

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