"What if you gave someone a gift, and they neglected to thank you for it - would you be likely to give them another? Life is the same way. In order to attract more of the blessings that life has to offer, you must truly appreciate what you already have"
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That’s the subtextual move: he anthropomorphizes life into a giver who can be pleased or displeased, like a friend deciding whether you’re worth the effort. It’s not theology exactly, but it borrows the emotional logic of reciprocity. The phrase “attract more” edges into prosperity-gospel territory, implying a quasi-economic mechanism where appreciation functions as currency. This is less “be thankful because it’s morally right” than “be thankful because it works.”
Context matters: Marston wrote in an American self-help lineage that treats mindset as leverage. The early- to mid-20th century was thick with motivational writing that translated uncertainty into something manageable: adjust your attitude, improve your outcomes. His diction stays accessible (“gift,” “thank,” “blessings”), but the intent is disciplined: train the reader’s attention away from lack and toward recognition, because attention is habit-forming. Whether or not life actually “rewards” gratitude, the psychological payoff is real: appreciation reduces entitlement, increases resilience, and makes you a person others want to invest in. The universe may not be keeping score, but your relationships, your memory, and your stress levels absolutely are.
Quote Details
| Topic | Gratitude |
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| Source | Later attribution: You Can't Ruin My Day (Allen Klein, 2015) modern compilationISBN: 9781632280312 · ID: qBPsBgAAQBAJ
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... What if you gave someone a gift , and they neglected to thank you for it — would you be likely to give them another ? Life is the same way . In order to attract more of the blessings that life has to offer , you must truly appre- ciate ... |
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Marston, Ralph. (2026, February 12). What if you gave someone a gift, and they neglected to thank you for it - would you be likely to give them another? Life is the same way. In order to attract more of the blessings that life has to offer, you must truly appreciate what you already have. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-if-you-gave-someone-a-gift-and-they-16258/
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Marston, Ralph. "What if you gave someone a gift, and they neglected to thank you for it - would you be likely to give them another? Life is the same way. In order to attract more of the blessings that life has to offer, you must truly appreciate what you already have." FixQuotes. February 12, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-if-you-gave-someone-a-gift-and-they-16258/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"What if you gave someone a gift, and they neglected to thank you for it - would you be likely to give them another? Life is the same way. In order to attract more of the blessings that life has to offer, you must truly appreciate what you already have." FixQuotes, 12 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-if-you-gave-someone-a-gift-and-they-16258/. Accessed 20 Feb. 2026.









