"What is deservedly suffered must be borne with calmness, but when the pain is unmerited, the grief is resistless"
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Then Ovid springs the trap. “But when the pain is unmerited, the grief is resistless” doesn’t romanticize suffering; it diagnoses a psychological fact with ruthless clarity. Undeserved pain breaks the bargain that keeps people compliant: the belief that the world is, if not fair, at least readable. Unmerited suffering doesn’t merely hurt; it scrambles meaning. Grief becomes “resistless” because there’s no internal narrative to domesticate it. You can endure what you can explain. You can’t discipline yourself into accepting what has no moral cause.
The context matters: Ovid, master of desire, metamorphosis, and the cruel caprice of power, later becomes Rome’s most famous casualty of arbitrary punishment - exiled by Augustus for a “carmen et error” (a poem and a mistake) never fully spelled out. Read with that shadow, the quote doubles as self-justification and quiet indictment. He isn’t only contrasting guilt with innocence; he’s exposing how authority weaponizes pain by denying its reason, leaving the victim with nothing but raw, uncontainable grief.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ovid. (2026, January 17). What is deservedly suffered must be borne with calmness, but when the pain is unmerited, the grief is resistless. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-is-deservedly-suffered-must-be-borne-with-33855/
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Ovid. "What is deservedly suffered must be borne with calmness, but when the pain is unmerited, the grief is resistless." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-is-deservedly-suffered-must-be-borne-with-33855/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"What is deservedly suffered must be borne with calmness, but when the pain is unmerited, the grief is resistless." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-is-deservedly-suffered-must-be-borne-with-33855/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.












