"What is the appropriate behavior for a man or a woman in the midst of this world, where each person is clinging to his piece of debris? What's the proper salutation between people as they pass each other in this flood?"
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As a leader, the Buddha’s power move is rhetorical: he asks about “appropriate behavior” and “proper salutation,” the language of manners and social order, then drops it into a flood where manners are almost absurd. That clash exposes the subtext: the rules we rely on to make society feel stable can become performative when the deeper problem is suffering, impermanence, and attachment. He’s challenging the instinct to treat spiritual crisis like a PR problem.
Context matters. In the Buddha’s world, people were navigating status, ritual, and competing philosophies, often promising certainty. His flood metaphor punctures that certainty. It implies samsara: endless churn where the ordinary self tries to stay intact by clutching at temporary things - roles, possessions, even beliefs. The “salutation” becomes a test: when you meet another person in the wreckage, do you reinforce their clinging, or offer presence, compassion, and a path out?
The intent is quietly radical: don’t confuse politeness with wisdom. In a drowning world, the most ethical greeting may be the one that loosens the grip.
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Buddha. "What is the appropriate behavior for a man or a woman in the midst of this world, where each person is clinging to his piece of debris? What's the proper salutation between people as they pass each other in this flood?" FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-is-the-appropriate-behavior-for-a-man-or-a-25713/.
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"What is the appropriate behavior for a man or a woman in the midst of this world, where each person is clinging to his piece of debris? What's the proper salutation between people as they pass each other in this flood?" FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-is-the-appropriate-behavior-for-a-man-or-a-25713/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.







