"What makes a person sexy is when he's not trying to be sexy"
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The intent is quietly corrective. In a culture that treats sex appeal as a checklist (gym, grin, algorithmic flirt), she argues for the opposite: the magnetic pull of someone absorbed in something other than being watched. Subtext: trying to be sexy is often a kind of plea for approval, and audiences can smell the effort. The body becomes a billboard for insecurity. When he is "not trying", attention shifts from self-display to self-possession, and that reads as confidence without the need to announce it.
The quote also carries a Binoche-specific context. Her screen persona has often traded in suggestion rather than spectacle: intelligence, restraint, and emotional opacity that invites pursuit. In that tradition - and in a broader French cinematic sensibility that prizes naturalism over polish - desire is sparked by what remains unforced and slightly unknowable. "Not trying" doesn't mean careless; it means unselfconscious. It's the difference between seduction and self-styling.
There's a gentle provocation in her phrasing, too: "a person" becomes "he". The line flatters men, but it also reveals the camera's default gaze and the exhausting expectation that women, especially actresses, must always be "trying". Binoche flips that script by naming the paradox: the harder you chase the look of desirability, the less room you leave for the thing people actually want - authenticity, in real time.
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