"What makes loneliness an anguish is not that I have no one to share my burden, but this: I have only my own burden to bear"
About this Quote
As a diplomat and UN Secretary-General, Hammarskjold lived in a role defined by mediation, constant contact, and public consequence. That context makes the quote bite harder. It reads like a confession from someone surrounded by people but cut off from genuine exchange. The burdens he carried - geopolitical crises, moral compromises, decisions with body counts - were not shareable in the intimate way that relieves pressure. Responsibility at that altitude isolates: not because others aren’t present, but because the act of leadership narrows what can be said and to whom.
The subtext is almost ascetic. He hints that companionship isn’t a cure if it merely offers sympathy; what the lonely self craves is genuine encounter with something not-self: another person’s needs, another worldview, a task larger than one’s interior narrative. It’s a diplomatic insight disguised as personal anguish: isolation is when your life contains no real “other,” only echoes.
Quote Details
| Topic | Loneliness |
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| Source | Markings (Vägmärken), Dag Hammarskjold — posthumous collection of meditations (English translation 1964). Quotation appears in Markings (exact page varies by edition/translation). |
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Hammarskjold, Dag. (2026, January 18). What makes loneliness an anguish is not that I have no one to share my burden, but this: I have only my own burden to bear. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-makes-loneliness-an-anguish-is-not-that-i-5925/
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Hammarskjold, Dag. "What makes loneliness an anguish is not that I have no one to share my burden, but this: I have only my own burden to bear." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-makes-loneliness-an-anguish-is-not-that-i-5925/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"What makes loneliness an anguish is not that I have no one to share my burden, but this: I have only my own burden to bear." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-makes-loneliness-an-anguish-is-not-that-i-5925/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.







