"What people say isn't going to stop me. I have to do things for myself"
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The first clause names the ambient noise: gossip columns, casting-room whispers, tabloid morality plays, the perpetual scoring of a woman’s body and choices. Moss doesn’t bother arguing with it. She refuses the premise that the crowd is a jury. That’s the key subtext: in celebrity culture, opinion is often framed as consequence, as if being talked about is a form of sentencing. Moss flips it. Talk is weather; you dress for it and leave the house anyway.
Then comes the sharper pivot: “I have to do things for myself.” Not “I want to,” not “I deserve to.” “Have to” suggests necessity, a kind of self-authorship as maintenance. It hints at the cost of living as an image: when your job is to be looked at, choosing for yourself becomes an act of reclamation. The line’s power is its plainness. No brand, no manifesto, just a refusal to outsource her life to the commentariat. In a culture that rewards women for being agreeable and punishes them for being autonomous, that simplicity is the provocation.
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"What people say isn't going to stop me. I have to do things for myself." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-people-say-isnt-going-to-stop-me-i-have-to-75443/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.







