"What sweetness is left in life, if you take away friendship? Robbing life of friendship is like robbing the world of the sun. A true friend is more to be esteemed than kinsfolk"
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The subtext is also quietly political. Cicero wrote in a collapsing Republic where public loyalty was being replaced by faction, patronage, and brute power. By elevating true friendship over blood ties, he is challenging the Roman default of clan obligation and inherited allegiance. Kinsfolk can bind you by accident of birth; friendship, ideally, binds you by chosen virtue. That word choice - "esteemed" - is moral and civic, not sentimental. You dont just feel for a friend; you honor them because they represent a shared standard of character.
There is an implicit warning tucked inside the lyricism: when a society cheapens friendship into networking, or reduces loyalty to family and tribe, it doesnt merely harm private life. It darkens the whole world. Cicero is arguing that friendship is a civic technology, the human-scale trust that makes freedom livable and politics something other than conquest.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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| Source | Cicero, Laelius: On Friendship (De Amicitia), c.44 BC — English translation (Internet Classics Archive, MIT). |
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"What sweetness is left in life, if you take away friendship? Robbing life of friendship is like robbing the world of the sun. A true friend is more to be esteemed than kinsfolk." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-sweetness-is-left-in-life-if-you-take-away-9068/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










